How to Choose the Right Vibrator

Buying a new sex toy today is like trying to decide the only chocolate bar you can eat for the rest of your life (if you had to choose). In other words, it’s rather confusing. Do you opt for the well-known rabbit, the silent lipstick shape, or the fancy one with both G spot and clitoral stimulation? Do not panic – this guide will help you choose the right vibrator.

Firstly, what turns you on?

It’s easy to fall into the trap of assuming anything small is ideal for a beginner. With vibrators, it’s more about deciding the type of stimulation you are seeking.

If you love clitoral stimulation, a toy designed for external play such as a bullet, wand or a clitoral suction toy would be ideal. Anything small is typically designed for external use. If penetration helps you to climax, consider a G-spot toy, a classic dildo or a rabbit. The rabbit vibrator is a dual-action device that delivers both clitoral and penetrative pleasure.

Some of the most popular vibrators include:

Bullet

Often designed to be small and discreet, bullet shapes usually have very silent motors and work best as clitoral stimulators (they are so small that they would be difficult to insert). Due to their size, bullet vibrators are typically no-fuss, easy-to-use devices which offer instant and powerful pleasure for someone who doesn’t have all day to turn themselves on.

I find the small size can make them sometimes uncomfortable to hold.

Wand

Samantha Jones introduced me to the wand when she purchased one in a shop that referred to them as ‘neck massagers.’ Not only are they versatile, but wand vibrators also have long handles and wide heads which make them great for reaching any area you desire. Just like the bullet, they are made for external use. You can easily use a wand to touch other parts of your body such as your nipples. Most of them have lots of different speeds so you can build up to your arousal.

Suction

Suction toys have become one of the most popular types of vibrators, with many brands listing them as top sellers. While vibrators generally stimulate the tip of the clitoris, suction toys create powerful sonic pulses that touch the entire clitoral centre, creating a more full, intense orgasm.

The waves from suction toys are meant to mimic oral sex. These toys are often expensive but very well made. It can take some getting used to if you have only experimented with more classic styles such as the wand or dildo shape.

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Rabbit

You have external toys and penetrative ones – the rabbit is the best of both. Rabbits usually have small heads for penetration with vibrating ears on the side. (Yes, they literally look like rabbits). There is a huge variety of shapes and sizes to choose from, with the pricier ones generally offering more speeds and functions.

Size matters

Choose a vibrator that looks friendly. Anything that feels a bit daunting will probably deter your pleasure. Again, this has a lot to do with the type of stimulation you prefer.

How much are you willing to spend?

Vibrators can be very expensive. The difference in price is usually down to technology, material, battery and functions. While you can buy affordable and effective vibrators, you don’t want to skimp too much on something intended for your most intimate area.

Some things to consider:

Is the vibrator made from medical-grade silicone?

Pricier toys tend to use luxury silicone which is incredibly soft against your skin. The less expensive options can use soft plastic which doesn’t feel as smooth.

What features are non-negotiable?

Do you want to use your toy in the shower? Are you seeking a remote-operated device that your partner can help control? In general, the higher the price, the more bells and whistles. This is not always ideal, however. If you want a vibrator that can instantly hit maximum speed and intensity, having 10 different speed options is rather annoying.

Try to hear its buzz before buying

If you want a silent toy that your next-door neighbour or flatmate can’t hear, be sure to listen to how the toy sounds first. You don’t want to invest in a vibrator that sounds so loud, you can’t relax while using it. Many advertise themselves as being silent but this is not always the case. Suction toys tend to have a louder buzz.

Have you got lube?

Vibrators work best when you are already turned on so there is less friction. I recommend having a water-based lube (an absolute must if your toy is made from silicone) on hand at all times.